{"id":126,"date":"2018-01-19T20:41:42","date_gmt":"2018-01-19T18:41:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/animaweb.blog.pangea.org\/?page_id=126"},"modified":"2023-01-19T06:41:05","modified_gmt":"2023-01-19T04:41:05","slug":"jose-luis-cabouli-el-teu-ego-no-suporta-tota-la-veritat","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/animaweb.blog.pangea.org\/ro\/jose-luis-cabouli-el-teu-ego-no-suporta-tota-la-veritat\/","title":{"rendered":"Jos\u00e9 Luis Cabouli: „Ego-ul t\u0103u nu poate suporta tot adev\u0103rul”."},"content":{"rendered":"

Jos\u00e9 Luis Cabouli: „Ego-ul t\u0103u nu poate suporta tot adev\u0103rul”.<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\"LaLa Vanguardia. S\u00e2mb\u0103t\u0103, 23 august 2003. La Contra.<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Jos\u00e9 Luis Cabouli: „Ego-ul t\u0103u nu poate suporta \u00eentregul adev\u0103r”.<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Am 52 de ani. M-am n\u0103scut \u00een Buenos Aires. Am fost chirurg plastician, dar unul dintre cei care nu se \u00eembog\u0103\u021besc, iar ast\u0103zi sunt un terapeut regresiv<\/b>. Am un fiu de 10 luni \u0219i unul de 20 de ani. Cred c\u0103 \u00een aceast\u0103 via\u021b\u0103 purcedem la erori din vie\u021bile anterioare pe care trebuie s\u0103 le remediem cu iubire \u0219i la traume teribile de care con\u0219tiin\u021ba noastr\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 se debaraseze atunci c\u00e2nd ne amintim de ele.<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

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Jose Luis Cabouli. Foto: Jose Maria Alguersuari.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Jos\u00e9 Luis Cabouli. Foto: Jos\u00e9 Mar\u00eda Alguersuari.<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Terapeut regresiv.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Un pacient mi-a povestit c\u0103 avea o durere de stomac care se accentua \u00een certurile de cuplu din cauza propriilor crize de gelozie.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u2013Ce i-a\u021bi recomandat?\u2013<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u2013L-am rugat s\u0103 descrie durerea, iar el a spus: „E ca \u0219i cum a\u0219 avea un pumnal \u00eenfipt \u00een stomac”. Am luat fraza la propriu, a\u0219a cum ar fi f\u0103cut subcon\u0219tientul pacientului meu, \u0219i l-am interogat p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd a ajuns la experien\u021ba care a provocat simptomul.\u2013<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u2013Un ulcer?\u2013<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u2013O b\u0103taie \u00eentr-o tavern\u0103 \u00een care pacientul meu tocmai a descoperit c\u0103 so\u021bia lui a fost infidel\u0103 \u0219i c\u0103 cel\u0103lalt \u00eel \u00eenjunghia.\u2013<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u2013Deci e normal s\u0103 fi avut dureri?\u2013<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u2013Nu, doar c\u0103 lupta a avut loc \u00eentr-o via\u021b\u0103 anterioar\u0103. \u00cen terapie a retr\u0103it furia, ura, m\u00e2nia \u0219i ne\u00eencrederea fa\u021b\u0103 de so\u021bia sa \u0219i s-a eliberat. Pentru c\u0103 atunci c\u00e2nd moartea se produce \u00een c\u00e2teva secunde, con\u0219tiin\u021ba este prins\u0103 \u00eentr-o stare de stupoare \u00eenainte de a-\u0219i da seama c\u0103 a murit.\u2013<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u2013\u0218i cum \u00ee\u0219i aminte\u0219te acum c\u0103 a fost altcineva?\u2013<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u2013Trecutul nu poate fi atins dec\u00e2t prin emo\u021bie, a\u0219a c\u0103 \u00eencerc s\u0103-l fac pe pacient s\u0103 nu ra\u021bioneze, ci s\u0103 evoce senza\u021bii \u0219i sentimente.\u2013<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u2013Ce telenovel\u0103!\u2013<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u2013Nu crede\u021bi \u00een via\u021ba trecut\u0103 dac\u0103 nu vre\u021bi, dar crede\u021bi \u00een subcon\u0219tient care, a\u0219a cum spunea S\u00e1bato, este mai real dec\u00e2t realitatea. Apoi vom \u00eencerca s\u0103 epuiz\u0103m toate aceste senza\u021bii nepl\u0103cute, astfel \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 v\u0103 pute\u021bi elibera con\u0219tiin\u021ba \u00eenghe\u021bat\u0103 \u00een timp de \u0219ocul mor\u021bii subite.\u2013<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u2013Ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 dac\u0103 durerea este din cauza unui ulcer?\u2013<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u2013Atunci pacientul nu ar fi venit la cabinetul meu. Ceea ce i se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 este c\u0103, atunci c\u00e2nd se confrunt\u0103 cu o situa\u021bie similar\u0103 cu cea din vie\u021bile anterioare, simptomul durerii \u00een burt\u0103 se reia, deoarece con\u0219tiin\u021ba sa este prins\u0103 \u00een acea clip\u0103. \u00cencerc s\u0103-l fac s\u0103 retr\u0103iasc\u0103 intens toate acele emo\u021bii de furie \u0219i durere, astfel \u00eenc\u00e2t con\u0219tiin\u021ba lui s\u0103 se deta\u0219eze de acel corp care nu mai are nimic de-a face cu el.\u2013<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u2013Ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 dac\u0103 el a inventat toat\u0103 lupta sau dac\u0103, la sugestie, o ia dintr-un film?\u2013<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u2013\u021ai-am spus deja c\u0103 unii oameni cred c\u0103 aceste episoade retr\u0103ite sunt simple fantezii ale subcon\u0219tientului: \u00een orice caz, pentru subcon\u0219tient, tot ceea ce \u0219tie este adev\u0103rat. A\u0219adar, dac\u0103 epuizezi acea durere, \u00eel vei elibera pe pacient de propria sa fantasm\u0103. Certitudinea c\u0103 trauma sa dateaz\u0103 dinaintea propriei vie\u021bi ,poate veni mai t\u00e2rziu.\u2013<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u2013Cum mi-a\u0219 putea aminti alte vie\u021bi?\u2013<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u2013Pentru \u00eenceput, nu po\u021bi merge la terapia regresiv\u0103 din curiozitate, ci trebuie s\u0103 vii din necesitate, din cauza unui simptom inexplicabil. Acest simptom prezent ne va conduce la trauma din trecut prin intermediul emo\u021biilor retr\u0103ite. \u0218i exist\u0103 trei mari momente \u00een care se exprim\u0103 aceste traume din trecut: moartea, experien\u021ba fetal\u0103 \u0219i copil\u0103ria timpurie.\u2013<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u2013\u00ce\u021bi aminte\u0219ti na\u0219terea ta?\u2013<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u2013Da, am retr\u0103it emo\u021biile dorin\u021bei de a ie\u0219i afar\u0103, frigul din camer\u0103, senza\u021biile de ap\u0103sare, de sufocare…. Dar nu reu\u0219esc s\u0103 evoc imagini. Am avut o pacient\u0103 care \u0219i-a amintit de furia ei \u00een fa\u021ba absen\u021bei mamei sale…\u2013<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u2013La na\u0219tere?\u2013<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u2013Da, mama ei a dormit sub anestezie \u0219i sora mamei sale, m\u0103tu\u0219a ei, a fost cea care a sp\u0103lat-o c\u00e2nd s-a n\u0103scut \u0219i mi-a explicat mai t\u00e2rziu c\u0103 a avut \u00eentotdeauna o rela\u021bie foarte special\u0103 cu m\u0103tu\u0219a ei \u0219i, pe de alt\u0103 parte, a p\u0103strat o anumit\u0103 distan\u021b\u0103 fa\u021b\u0103 de mama ei. Lucrul amuzant este c\u0103 nimeni nu-i explicase p\u00e2n\u0103 atunci c\u0103 mama ei a fost anesteziat\u0103 la na\u0219tere.\u2013<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u2013Poate c\u0103 a auzit-o f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 \u0219tie…\u2013<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u2013Cred c\u0103 a tr\u0103it \u0219i \u00ee\u0219i poate aminti. De ce nu? \u00cen plus, exist\u0103 o analogie clar\u0103 \u00eentre traumele suferite \u00een vie\u021bile anterioare \u0219i na\u0219tere. De exemplu, decesele prin sp\u00e2nzurare sau anoxie \u00eentr-o alt\u0103 via\u021b\u0103 se reflect\u0103 adesea \u00een cercurile cordonului \u00een momentul na\u0219terii \u00een via\u021ba actual\u0103.\u2013<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u2013\u0218i nu poate fi vorba doar de o amintire proast\u0103 din copil\u0103rie?\u2013<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u2013Eram chirurg \u00eenainte de a m\u0103 orienta spre terapia regresiv\u0103, dup\u0103 ce am devenit familiarizat cu activitatea doctorului Morris Netherton. Una dintre pacientele mele suferea de dureri de spate continue \u0219i inexplicabile, cu contrac\u021bii continue…\u2013<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u2013Postura incorect\u0103? Stresul?\u2013<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u2013Am operat-o de dou\u0103 ori \u0219i chiar i-am \u00eendep\u0103rtat o parte din osul scapulei, f\u0103r\u0103 niciun rezultat. Am \u00eencercat terapia lui Netherton \u0219i \u00eempreun\u0103 am retr\u0103it o experien\u021b\u0103 de tortur\u0103 din Evul Mediu.\u2013<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u2013Ce film!\u2013<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u2013Ei bine, a func\u021bionat. \u0218i eu \u00eensumi am suferit de gastrit\u0103 inexplicabil\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd am retr\u0103it o b\u0103t\u0103lie dintr-o via\u021b\u0103 anterioar\u0103 \u00een care am fost \u00eenjunghiat.\u2013<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u2013Ei bine, eu prefer gastrita, hei!\u2013<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u2013Subcon\u0219tientul te duce acolo unde con\u0219tiin\u021ba trebuie s\u0103 lucreze pentru a ne elibera de o experien\u021b\u0103 traumatizant\u0103.\u2013<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u2013\u0218i formidabilele bacanale romane nu pot fi amintite?\u2013<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u2013Amintirile pl\u0103cute nu las\u0103 urme. Traumele sunt dep\u0103\u0219ite prin retr\u0103irea lor \u0219i compensarea propriului comportament meschin, egoist sau crud cu o nou\u0103 iubire care restabile\u0219te echilibrul universal.\u2013<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u2013Ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 dac\u0103 nu pot evoca nicio via\u021b\u0103 anterioar\u0103?\u2013<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u2013Blocajul \u00een terapie apare doar atunci c\u00e2nd pacientul are ceva de ascuns \u0219i \u00ee\u0219i folose\u0219te energia pentru a \u00eempiedica acest lucru s\u0103 ias\u0103 la suprafa\u021b\u0103. Ego-ul t\u0103u nu poate suporta \u00eentregul adev\u0103r, pentru c\u0103 este prea umilitor \u0219i \u00eencerci s\u0103 \u00eel ascunzi.\u2013<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u2013\u0218i s\u0103 fi fost Cleopatra sau Napoleon…?\u2013<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u2013Nu am \u00eent\u00e2lnit niciodat\u0103 un pacient care s\u0103 fi avut o via\u021b\u0103 anterioar\u0103 fascinant\u0103 sau celebr\u0103. To\u021bi \u00ee\u0219i amintesc vie\u021bile \u0219i mor\u021bile crude ale unor fiin\u021be umane necunoscute \u0219i nefericite.\u2013<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Llu\u00eds Amiguet.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Un pas.<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

A fost un pas foarte mic pentru omenire, dar foarte mare pentru mine, dar nu-mi pot aminti cu claritate momentul na\u0219terii mele, de\u0219i m-am l\u0103sat c\u00e2teva ore \u00een trans\u0103, ceea ce nu m\u0103 \u00eempiedic\u0103 s\u0103 v\u0103 invit (nu exist\u0103 niciun pericol) s\u0103 \u00eencerca\u021bi, a\u0219a cum spune Cabouli, din senza\u021bii: mirosuri, frig \u0219i c\u0103ldur\u0103, zgomote, lumini… \u0218i odat\u0103 ce misterele na\u0219terii \u00een sine au fost descoperite, eternitatea. Metampsihoza sau transmigra\u021bia sufletelor este un act de credin\u021b\u0103 comun mai multor religii \u0219i o posibilitate pe care psihanaliza jungian\u0103 a m\u00e2ng\u00e2iat-o. Acum \u00eencerc s\u0103 abordez terapia regresiv\u0103 cu, cred eu, o distan\u021b\u0103 s\u0103n\u0103toas\u0103, pe care v-o recomand, de\u0219i nu v\u0103d niciun risc mai mare \u00een aceast\u0103 abordare dec\u00e2t cel care v\u0103 p\u00e2nde\u0219te portofelele. \u0218i \u0219tim cum s\u0103 ne ferim de asta aici.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Traducere: Govor Marian Cosmin.<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Jos\u00e9 Luis Cabouli: „Ego-ul t\u0103u nu poate suporta tot adev\u0103rul”. La Vanguardia. S\u00e2mb\u0103t\u0103, 23 august 2003. La Contra. Jos\u00e9 Luis Cabouli: „Ego-ul t\u0103u nu poate suporta \u00eentregul adev\u0103r”. Am 52 … Continu\u0103 lectura \u201eJos\u00e9 Luis Cabouli: „Ego-ul t\u0103u nu poate suporta tot adev\u0103rul”.\u201d<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":12345698,"featured_media":0,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-126","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/animaweb.blog.pangea.org\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/126","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/animaweb.blog.pangea.org\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/animaweb.blog.pangea.org\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/animaweb.blog.pangea.org\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/12345698"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/animaweb.blog.pangea.org\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=126"}],"version-history":[{"count":31,"href":"https:\/\/animaweb.blog.pangea.org\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/126\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2364,"href":"https:\/\/animaweb.blog.pangea.org\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/126\/revisions\/2364"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/animaweb.blog.pangea.org\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=126"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}